The Orgasm Gap

Women and femme-identified people deserve more.

"Heterosexual men were most likely to say they usually-always orgasmed when sexually intimate (95%), followed by gay men (89%), bisexual men (88%), lesbian women (86%), bisexual women (66%), and heterosexual women (65%)." Those are the findings reported by the study Differences in Orgasm Frequency Among Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Heterosexual Men and Women in a U.S. National Sample.

I built the events in my four-part series very purposefully. We started by talking about politics. In other words, I opened folks up by exploring why some people might consider talking about sex taboo at all. After that, I pivoted to talking about sex techniques. What is sex? How do you do it? How can we make sure your partners experience maximum pleasure? Speaking of partners, the next talk in my series covered how to improve your relationships.

To wrap everything up in a beautiful bow, I brought everyone to the climax: Orgasms! Orgasms! Orgasms! I shared all of the wonderful places inside and outside of your body that are capable of experiencing orgasm.